Written by: Kristýna Vondrová
You've thought about it several times. You may have even opened the website of an online sex shop, clicked on the vibrator category and scrolled through the store's colorful menu. But the invisible hand of insecurity does not allow yours to complete the purchase. Apart from the traditional concern of "will I match her taste?" (without which you can't choose any gift) another, unfamiliar feeling grips your stomach. Am I inviting a dangerous competitor into the bedroom?
The creators of the legendary series Sex in the City used the motif in the script as well. Sworn romantic Charlotte is so excited about her new vibrator that she starts boycotting dates and canceling her friends' plans so she can spend all her free time under the covers with "Mr. Rabbit." She recovers only after a visit and strong "intervention" from her friends, who confiscate the toy.
Performance is expected, even in bed
It's been 25 years since the first series of the TV hit, but some things haven't changed much. For example, the pressure to perform that accompanies our careers, hobbies and relationships, including sexual ones. Guys still expect an endless erection and endurance of the pink Duracell battery mascot in bed. At least we are convinced of this by the ubiquitous advertisements for creams promising penis enlargement and pills for quick erection and libido enhancement. With the media masseuse then - quite understandably - men's insecurity also grows. Getting a woman a vibrator requires a certain amount of generosity. And the self-confidence that repels intrusive thoughts of comparing inches or hours of driving, which dildo or vibrator will come out victorious.
Women also know the feeling of insecurity
"What are you talking about, it's a piece of plastic," we tell you in the role of girlfriends, lovers and wives. But honestly (or a bit lower), how many of us have given our partner (not jokingly) a blow-up hymen or an artificial vagina? Would we really not feel even a little bit threatened by them? After all, we too are afraid if our vaginal muscles hug you enough, if we are narrow enough. It's just that we don't get into a head-to-head duel with sex tools as often as you do.
Go deeper with a vibrator—in partnered intimacy
We love you as personalities, weakness for a handy toy will never compare to that. And the vibrator you buy for us deepens that love and feeling of intimacy in the relationship even more. Because:
- you show that you understand: the desire to plug in a vibrator does not mean a lack of satisfaction in your partner's sex life. A new toy is not a substitute that will knock you out of the game. On the contrary, pleasure and excitement multiply as new possibilities open up for all involved.
- actively you open space for sharing fantasies and joint experimentsin which the vibrator becomes your ally, not juice. And we value creativity more than physical performance!
Tip: Even if the velvet surface of the vibrator will certainly charm you too, give it to us first. And take the seat of honor as a spectator. So you will find out what we like with no effort and just a few questions. - si we will think of you every time we masturbate, when we reach for the vibrator. And if you don't believe us, make sure of it with a peppery personal messagethat they'll be happy to engrave into the snow-white hottie at Whoop·de·doo. Season ticket to the front row of our me time in its purest form.
And finally, there is one discipline that even the designer vibrator from Anna Marešová's workshop will not offer. Empathywith which you accept not only those passionate days accompanying ovulation, but also the reflective (menstrual) phase of our cycle. In that we need open arms, stroking of hair and of course menstrual cup.